How Mindset shapes everything

Our mindset shapes whether we believe we can learn and change and grow – or not.

From the shape of your skull to the size of your foot, your body’s physical characteristics are more or less entirely predetermined from the start. Of course you can get plastic surgery or break a bone, but we human beings generally have very little control over our bodies’ features.

But what about intellectual and physical abilities, like playing basketball, drawing or solving math problems? Are they hereditary or learned? Today, most scientists agree that if you want to become a concert violinist, you not only need to have a musical disposition, but must dedicate years of your life to practising.

Still, there are as many answers to this question as there are people, for our mindset plays a crucial role in how we see ourselves and others. Simply put, our mindset shapes our beliefs in accomplishing something.

These two extremes form the basis for the concept of a fixed versus a growth mindset. People with a fixed mindset believe they are born naturally gifted at doing some things but utterly incapable of others, whereas people with a growth mindset believe they can become virtuosos of anything if they try hard enough.

So the people in the latter group continue growing throughout their lives, acquiring new skills without reservation and actively engaging in their relationships. For them, life in all its facets is in a constant state of change.

By contrast, people with a fixed mindset often let their black-and-white way of thinking obstruct their development. If they fail at something, they bury their heads in the sand or blame others. They hope for everlasting love in their relationships rather than working on the relationships themselves.

The key message  is:

People with a fixed mindset obstruct their own development through their belief in innate talent and their fear of failure. On the contrary, people with a growth mindset work hard and train hard to ultimately realize their potential to the fullest. By confronting our own attitudes and ideas, we can develop a growth mindset. 

The questions this piece may answer:

How do people differ in their mindset?

•  Our mindset shapes whether we believe we can learn and change and grow – or not.

•  An individual’s abilities are set in stone in the fixed mindset.

•  Growth and development are possible in the growth mindset.

What impact does our mindset have on our behavior?

•  People with a fixed mindset seek approval; those with a growth mindset seek development.

•  The fixed mindset sees failures as disasters; the growth mindset sees them as opportunities.

•  People with a fixed mindset avoid difficulties; those with a growth mindset relish them.

Can we change our mindset?

•  Our mindset is often strongly influenced by the role models we had as children.

•  Anyone can adopt a growth mindset and make the impossible possible.

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